to live in a reasonably functional democracy --
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We really take it for granted that we will hold elections and the new leader will take over without bloodshed. All legal wrangling aside, it really is a very orderly, civilized, respectful process. We take it for granted we (and our families) will not be harmed for exercising our right to vote or participating in the political process.
All the more reason to make sure you pay attention and participate. At all levels of government. Don't discard the privilege that others are literally dying to get.