There is an advantage to getting two - if they don't get along with the older rat, they will have each other. You don't wind up with 2 rats all alone. The disadvantage is that three rats take just a little more care than two. But it is such a small difference, and the advantage of a pair far outweighs the disadvantages, IMO. Your girl is not too old to have a new companion. I have successfully introduced new rats to both males and females of this age. It may just take a little longer. And the younger the new rats are, the easier it will be. Here's a good article on introducing new rats:
http://www.ratfanclub.org/newrat.html