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If you don't have the money for a simple spay, you should not be breeding rats. Period. These are
lives
you are creating - you
owe
it to them to provide proper care, including vet care!
And no, Dru is not a good breeder - there is absolutely no way she can be. Your posts here belie that, completely. A good breeder would not be encouraging a 13-year-old who cannot pay basic vet expenses to breed, nor giving out the other terrible advice/mentorship she has given you (which we have seen from your posts here). I am sure she is a very nice person who believes she is doing things right, but look at it this way. NO ONE here is agreeing with the advice she has given you. What are the odds that we are all wrong, vs. her being the one who is wrong?
I find this all really, really sad.
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Re: 2 years old and pregnant?
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Quote from: cuterat on June 17, 2007, 10:49:34 PM
Heather, did you get off to a perfect start?
I'm not sure what way you mean this. I have never intentionally bred rats. I'm sure any mentor worth his/her salt will give their apprentice the experience completely supervised from when the rats are matched, all throughout the female's pregnancy and all through the raising of the litter. You should not be "getting used to it and how it works" because your mentor should have given you enough of a backround for the basics and been walking you through every step, NO ACCIDENTS. I believe the best breeders on this forum have had minimum 2 years of consistant learning and controlled experiences through their mentors. We all start off rocky when we have our first rat and no one to teach us, but the thing is, we get better through knowledge and experience in a fairly short amount of time and when we find sources of information, we soak it up, humble ourselves for our pet's sake and take the advice of those who obviously know what they're talking about.
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Quote from: cuterat on June 17, 2007, 09:55:31 PM
In all the research I've done, it always says that females are too old to have babies when they are two years old.
*snerk* That made me laugh. I have had THREE females OVER the age of three who gave birth at my rescue. One of them was a few days short of being 4. I don't know where you have been doing your 'research', but it obviously hasn't been very in-depth or extensive. There is no set age for females to stop ovulating.
You are very very young to be responsible for breeding rats. At your age, you can't even make your own vet appointments or make the money necessary for getting supplies. You are not even legally responsible for your animals. At this point, you should be assisting an adult, not caring for these animals yourself. If you ever want to be an ethical, responsible breeder, you should stop breeding at once and wait until you can at least get a job. You say you haven't got the money to make an emergency health decision and spay a rat that will most likely need it by the time the pregnancy is over, but you're willing to keep breeding rats, which costs even MORE money than an emergency spay?
Do you even know how to draw a punnett square?
I don't need to meet Dru to know that she is a shoddy breeder. She has been giving you blatantly false advice, and putting innocent animals at risk by putting them in the care of a THIRTEEN YEAR OLD! Most of the ethical breeders I know waited until they were in their 30's before breeding in order to make sure they were in a stable position in their lives and could be 100% responsible for all their decisions. Rushing into it is just going to end up hurting a lot of animals. You are the kind of person I get all my emergency rescues from.
Putting them together was an IRRESPONSIBLE decision! Plain and simple! If you did research and found out that "females can't get pregnant after 2 years old" please link to this research. List some books. Reference some breeders ASIDE from this 'Dru'. Otherwise, you're just a liar.
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Re: 2 years old and pregnant?
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ok. if you dont have enough money to spay her, how the heck are you gonna take care of babies, and the health expenses of your older female rattie after she gives birth? That is if the complications that she --might-- have aren't fatal?
And if you are 13, what makes you think you can breed? obviously you arent even mature enough to handle what few rats you have. ITS COMMON SENSE TO NOT PUT AN EFFING MALE ANIMAL WITH A FEMALE ANIMAL UNLESS THEY ARE FIXED! And As previously stated. Just because she's a breeder doesnt mean she knows what she's doing. "ooh pretty boy rat, ooh pretty girl rat, make pretty babies!"
Oi.
you dont deserve ANY respect. I'm sorry.
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Quote from: cuterat on June 17, 2007, 11:09:22 PM
First of all, Dru ran the genetics and has taken classes for genetics.
Why not spay? NO MONEY
so I take it Marshy isn't on your mom's favorite list so no medical treatment?
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I'm not going to nueter Micah. He is my breeding boy.
you shouldn't be breeding anything until you are responsible enough and ready. You have pr oven time and time again today and in the past that you are very far from being responsible.
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Dru is a good breeder. You haven't even met her and shouldn't be making that kind of judgement.
I am sorry but I do not believe Dru is a good breeder at all. I do not have to meet her, it is obvious from you that she is not. That or you are just a bad mentoree and she needs to pick someone else to mentor.
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It wasn't an irresponsible decision to put them together either. I did my research and concluded it would be fine.
How in the world can you say that was a responsible thing to do? what planet are you from? I'm sorry but if you did your research, you would have NEVER put them together and you wouldn't be sitting here trying to save face.
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why not? someone has to be a voice for that poor rat. Obviously you do not give a care in the world about her health.
OF COURSE I CARE! DON'T EVEN SAY THAT!
you have a funny way of showing it!
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And I've made a mistake like this before???
maybe not this particular situation but from what I have seen, you would think you would have learned from all your past other ones.
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Marshy is from a different line and I never planned to breed her as her mother was a pet store rat and we had no idea what her genetics were. We never saw any reason to put her through surgery and spend the money to spay her.
this is why you should have NEVER put him in with her.
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can you blame us with threads that bleed with such stupidity?
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I would ask Dru, but she's out of town and we aren't able to get ahold of her.
I'm sorry...perhaps work on better communication?
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No. Marshy a pet store rat. Micah is not. Keela is not. Micah and Keela was the intended litter and Micah and Marshy is the accidental possible litter.
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I honestly can't think of any ethical, responsible breeder that would hand one of his/her breeding stock over to a 13 year old and just say "Here you go, do what you want with him. Infact, why don't you put him with that there 2 year old pet store rat and see what happens!" WTF???
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Drache, marry me.
Cuterat, I cannot stress this enough. We are all VERY concerned for good reason, here. We are not taking the time to make these posts just for kicks. We are not saying these things just to make you feel bad. We're (at least I am for sure) desperately hoping something sinks in so that you realize (and point out to your parents, and this "breeder") that your practices need to be changed and remedied, for your rats' sakes.
Don't you want to do right by your rats? By all rats in general? That's what we want. Plain and simple.
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Yeah. Ummm...I'll refrain from saying what I was going to say.
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You know... it has actually come up on this very forum a few times recently... about whether or not older females can be placed with males.
Do a search, kid. It's not hard. You should have asked if you couldn't find anything on search... you obviously did not research deep or well enough.
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Cuterat, I said you made a choice and you aren't the one who has to live with that choice, your poor elderly rat does. Nothing you've said changes my opinion on that. You keep making posts about your "responsible mentor" knowing full well that no one on this board has agreed with anything she has to say. It makes me wonder if you aren't just desparate for the attention.
If you truly love rats and want to be involved with rats, perhaps you should try doing rescues and fosters rather than running a breeding problem you clearly aren't capable of comprehending. Maybe after you've seen rats who have been used as breeding machines and die from the mistreatment, or rats who've been starved to within an inch of their lives or mistreated in other serious ways, you'll actually have some respect for the lives you hold in your hands.
Everyone posting on this board truly loves rats and most have seen the consequences of irresponsible breeders and rat owners. And yet, you continue to ignore the many voices of experience who tell you that you are making a mistake. The only conclusion I can draw from this is that you are either cruel and enjoy watching rats suffer, or you're just a dumb kid who doesn't want to learn from the lessons of others.
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1. I know plenty of people that have taken classes and still have NO clue what they are doing, but lets just SAY they are competent here.
Why not spay? NO MONEY
2. Uhm. SO how are you going to take care of her if she does not reabsorb and has complications down the line?
I'm not going to nueter Micah. He is my breeding boy.
3. Don't we have enough people in this world that DON'T know what they are doing when they breed? So I DO assume you have homes for all of the proposed babies, you must have a ton of them it sounds like.
Dru is a good breeder. You haven't even met her and shouldn't be making that kind of judgement.
4. You are correct, we can only judge her by how you have been "trained". I think that says enough right there.
It wasn't an irresponsible decision to put them together either. I did my research and concluded it would be fine.
5. Really? Because there are fact supporting both sides, however it has been stated MANY MANY times it is NEVER OK TO DO THIS. I don't know any compitant rat owner that would EVER risk the life of an elderly female this way. I don't care WHO says they never had problems.
OF COURSE I CARE! DON'T EVEN SAY THAT!
6. And you are showing this how? By sitting back and waiting? By waiting until she may be fully pregnant....nice, really and how many people on here have stated you cannot tell until they are about ready to have them? More than a few dozen. So you would rather risk her life later on down the line.....
And I've made a mistake like this before???
Marshy is from a different line and I never planned to breed her as her mother was a pet store rat and we had no idea what her genetics were. We never saw any reason to put her through surgery and spend the money to spay her.
7. I can see a quite a few good reason to spay. Reduction of ovarian tumor and mammary tumors (and other cancers). Removal of possible risk of infection of the uterus. Longevity? Oh wait one more----100% decrease in risk of unwanted pregnancy.
I would ask Dru, but she's out of town and we aren't able to get ahold of her.
8. But an Emergency vet or vet can be called.....I assume of course. Because they are license to practice medicine and do occasionally know whats going on with your animals, unlike someone who has not gone to vet school for 7 years (I assume here that Dru is not a vet, at least I HOPE not).
No. Marshy a pet store rat. Micah is not. Keela is not. Micah and Keela was the intended litter and Micah and Marshy is the accidental possible litter.
9. I don't even know where to start on that one. How many generations have you gone back on your lines I wonder?
I don't think they're toys. How stupid do you think I am?
10. I'll partially answer this. The definition of a toy
"An object for children to play with.
Something of little importance; a trifle.
An amusement; a pastime: thought of the business as a toy."
You do not have the money for a e-spay. Yet what happens if there was a complication in the "intended pregnancy", what happens if the breeding female gets an pyometra and she needs to be spayed? What happens if one falls ill? What happens to the pups if she dies? What happens if a pup gets STUCK??
You are "toying" with this rats life. And your other females life as well. As well as the question you presented? I think that has been answered.
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I'm not familiar with breeding, but
common sense
tells me that the advice you were given is completely off-base! And it just makes me absolutely sad that an e-spay is not an option because of money when there is enough to
supposedly
support regular breeding. I don't feel that you are being a responsible rat
owner
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This thread just makes me very, very, VERY sad. As said before, unless you are a child genius in medical school, you have no place breeding. None. Wait until your age has doubled to even consider it. You'll look back on this when you get older with very different feelings than you're having now.
At least I HOPE you will.
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This is Cuterat's Mother, the person you have slammed. You're right my daughter is a 13 year old that doesn't stand a chance with this group of piranhas. It is clear that some of you have respect for people and ratties, the rest of you, well I shouldn't use those words. My friend Dru is one of the best people I know. She and I both took the high road last time, by not responding. 13 year olds sure are naive, I think she actually thought you people would be kind. I'm really not sure where she got the idea there's not enough money, I guess that is a 13 year olds view of an adults decision process of when to put it out and when not to. I had a vet charge me $125 for a surgery,
then
tell me that it wouldn't change anything. I guess he thought I just wanted to pay money to feel like I had done something for my rattie. I get the feeling you people would agree with him. I'm glad to hear that ratties have successfully had babies 3 and 4 years old, because now I have every reason to believe she will be just fine, if she has conceived. Don't worry I wouldn't ask any of you to take our mutt babies. I am sure there are loving homes waiting for them. I hope none of you women have any unplanned pregnancies. You people need to get off your high and mighty pedestals and get a life. I thought you might be interested in a definition for people like you guys.
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Listen. Consider the fact that we are all here giving you advice because you are asking for help. You made a mistake by putting a female rat in with a male rat. That's been said so many times I won't go into that. But now, you can FIX THE MISTAKE by spaying your rat. Everyone makes mistakes, but what's worse is not learning from that at all. I wouldn't want you to run away from this forum because you feel attacked. You seem to need a lot of advice and help and if you're willing to listen to it you can really improve the situation. Now, if you were to spay your rat and come back here admitting to your mistake and asking for guidance, I promise you'd find a lot of help. Before you continue breeding, especially learning from a "mentor" who seems to have no idea in the world of what he is doing, think about all the THOUSANDS of rats who need rescuing. Do you really want to just add to the unbearable numbers that already need homes? Fix your mistake now before you make the situation even worse for your poor rat!
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I do not see where spaying is the only alternative for this situation.
And honestly, I have to admit that a lot of the replies here are much more brutal than helpful....
I hope you, your daughter, and the ratties do well. B
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I know it was stated you will not be comming back. So I'll post this just to have it hang there unnoticed by you but maybe for some other person who does a search on accidental litters.
It is slightly opinionated that spaying is the ONLY option you have. Its not. But it IS the best option. Do consider this. Would it not be more economical for you to have her spayed at a time when her body has a better chance of rebounding from such an invasive surgery as opposed to possibly when she is carring to full or partial term and having an emergency c-section performed, not having the babies live and having her die after surgery due to the stresses impended on her body?
I know we sound "fanatical" as you call it. And yes I am over zealous about my rats and about the wellbeing of others on this forum. I am in 100% in agreement with you. I am passionate about my animals and I respect them as much as I respect what powers that let me behold their wonderful little lives that cheer me every single day. They are a GIFT, a luxury that we are so fortunate to be blessed with them. We are their guardians and caretakers and hold their fragile little lives in our sometimes clumsy hands. We make mistakes, but we are given the responsibility to accept them and fix them.
I also have been a veterinary technician for 5 years and have seen what can happen if YOU DON'T have the surgery. I have had animals die in my arms and on operating tables from pyometras and C-sections and people who have not realized there were pups stuck in the birth canal. I have seen it with my own eyes. I have tried to breath life into mothers that were not breathing due to the taxation the birthing process had on their bodies. The older the patient the higher the risk if done late in the game. The chances of survival are MUCH better with an e-spay then if there are any complications with the pregnancy. I have watched pups die one after one because they were too young, but if not for a c-section the mother would have died. I have seen the horrors first hand.
If you would like proof please PM me I will give you my vets # and I'm sure she would be happy to go over the benefits of this procedure with you.
Please understand, we mean the best for your rats, the rats........and we have been given a situation that should have not occurred in the first place. If you are to look to a womens menopause you will find it may be similar, but in some cases different. There are humans that enter this much later in life that others as well as women who are younger too. You cannot EVER be sure on age and there are many documentations out there to prove this. This is a very difficult lesson to learn, as you have now seen, but whats done is done and cannot be un.
So really when it comes down to it, we are suggesting you do whats best for your rattie---carrying to term is not the BEST. And giving birth can shorten their lifespan and take a furious toll on their delicate little bodies.
So wheather you read this or not. Its out there. For you or the next passerby who may have been stuck in the same situation.
Best of luck to the health of your rat at this time.
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*laughs*
Im sorry. yes they are brutal but in the beginning they were truthfully trying to be helpful until she proved that she didnt care what anyone really thought, and wasnt going to do anything about it.
yeah i'll quit now. people are ignorant.
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Quote from: Bellaratta on June 18, 2007, 01:30:32 AM
I do not see where spaying is the only alternative for this situation.
And honestly, I have to admit that a lot of the replies here are much more brutal than helpful....
I hope you, your daughter, and the ratties do well. B
I agree.
I do understand people's frustration with this situation, but when Cuterat has stated more than once she won't spay the female, why continue with the barrage of insults, and why continue arguing? Attacking her for her decision doesn't help the situation (right or wrong), or this rat, and only hurts the community as a whole. It's not a good look. If I was a newcomer to this forum and came across this thread, honestly, I doubt I'd come back.
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I have had THREE females OVER the age of three who gave birth at my rescue. One of them was a few days short of being 4.
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I'm glad to hear that ratties have successfully had babies 3 and 4 years old, because now I have every reason to believe she will be just fine, if she has conceived.
Since Drache's statement is the only one I can find mentioning females over three giving birth, I can only assume that you, Cuterat, based the above statement on that. I don't think Drache said anything about the SUCCESS of the birthing process with these mothers. S/he didn't elaborate on them at all. You've been given so many reasons NOT to believe that she will do just fine, yet you take THIS statement as proof that she will be okay??
I am just really hoping that this rat is not pregnant at all. I hope you've been weighing her regularly and have a good idea of whether she is or is not.
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Don't worry I wouldn't ask any of you to take our mutt babies. I am sure there are loving homes waiting for them. I hope none of you women have any unplanned pregnancies. You people need to get off your high and mighty pedestals and get a life.
There is no comparison between what happened to your rat and any of the women on this board accidentally getting pregnant. All of the women on this board have a choice of whether or not to put themselves at risk for pregnancy, and a choice about what to do when they become pregnant. Your rat does not have the ability to make either of these choices -- you are making the choice for her and you seem to be doing a pretty careless job of it. Again, I just really hope she isn't pregnant and if she is, and you don't get her spayed, I hope you will at least seak the advice and help of an emergency vet when she does give birth.