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Rat Tails & Mug Shots / Re: R.I.P. Mary (11/29/15--7/13/18)
« Last post by gramma2jaakk on July 13, 2018, 02:04:25 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear this.

I never know what to say when I read these memorials. Sometimes I feel like I'm too cliche, or that I'm not saying enough or saying too much. But know that I am sorry you have lost another one of your little furries.
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Rat Tails & Mug Shots / Re: R.I.P. Mary (11/29/15--7/13/18)
« Last post by purple rat on July 13, 2018, 07:37:27 AM »
I'm so sorry about Mary. It's awful that you've had to experience the loss of so many of your fur babies in such a short time.  It was so good of you to take her in and give her a loving and safe place after such an awful start to her life.  Rest in peace sweet girl
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Rat Tails & Mug Shots / Re: R.I.P. Mary (11/29/15--7/13/18)
« Last post by MinervaThonosi on July 12, 2018, 07:59:50 PM »
So sorry for your loss.
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Rat Tails & Mug Shots / Re: R.I.P. Mary (11/29/15--7/13/18)
« Last post by BigBen on July 12, 2018, 07:16:45 PM »
Just realised today is the 12th, not the 13th.  Sorry!
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Rat Tails & Mug Shots / R.I.P. Mary (11/29/15--7/13/18)
« Last post by BigBen on July 12, 2018, 06:34:33 PM »
This has been a hard week.  Though it was hardly unexpected, I found Mary dead in her hammock this morning.  She is now in the flower bed with Bartholomew and Peter.

Mary made it to 31 months, which is a record for me, I believe.  She was a Holbrook rat, rescued by Mainely Rat rescue, and had to fight for every scrap of food for her babies.  They estimated that she had at least a couple of litters before being rescued.  She came to me with her daughter, Martha, who was born after the rescue.  Mary was a fighter and a vicious biter when I got her, but she eventually came to understand that she was safe with me.  I put her and Martha in with Bartholomew, because the adoption coordinator thought they might get along, and Mary soon won him over.  Mary and Martha were the only rats Bart ever got along with.  I believe he was touched by their shyness, because he became extremely protective of them.  Whenever Mary was out of the cage, Bart always had to come, too, to make sure she was safe.

Mary never came to be comfortable being handled; she always seemed anxious and wanted to get back into the cage.  She did, however, allow Bartholomew's example to change her perception of me, at least to the point of realizing that she didn't have to defend herself by biting.  It took a bit of patience on my part to get over the irritation of being bitten; learning her story helped a lot.  Although she was never really affectionate with me, she cared about Martha, and she greatly enjoyed cuddling with Bartholomew.  It was my privilege to give her a loving home for the last year of her life, and to ease some of her fear.  I would have loved to get to know her better, but I can at least take comfort in knowing that she realized she was safe at last. :love9:
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Rat Care Corner / Re: ....Where are the people on this forum?
« Last post by BigBen on July 12, 2018, 06:18:04 PM »
It's a shame, because this used to be a vibrant community.  I blame social media, but I'm not about to sign my life over to Mark Zuckerberg.  (sigh)
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Rat Care Corner / Re: ....Where are the people on this forum?
« Last post by purple rat on July 12, 2018, 05:42:25 PM »
I miss all the posts/opinions/pictures, it just seems like it hasn't been very active here in the last year  :-\
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Rat Care Corner / Re: ....Where are the people on this forum?
« Last post by mamarat2 on July 12, 2018, 01:18:21 PM »
Some of us are still around, some of us also took a break from rats for a while.....the forum just isn't as active.
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Rat Care Corner / ....Where are the people on this forum?
« Last post by skykoi on July 12, 2018, 01:03:59 PM »
Why does no one post here anymore? What happened to all the rat loving humans? Did they go somewhere else :0?

I know this doesn't fit in this section...but barely anyone posts in any of the sections anyways. But delete if you want. Is there a more popular rat forum currently  ????
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Rat Tails & Mug Shots / Re: R.I.P. Peter (8/25/167/7/18)
« Last post by gramma2jaakk on July 09, 2018, 07:44:50 AM »
I'm so sorry to hear this! It really is hard to lose two so close together like that. R.I.P. Peter.
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